INTERVIEW WITH BISHOP MAR THOMAS ELAVANAL
By Sheena George & Nelson C. J.
Soft-spoken and affable Mar Thomas Elavanal, Bishop of
Kalyan Diocese, never minces words while talking about various issues
related to the faithful and the diocese. In an interview, Mar Elavanal
spoke about vocation, maintaining a personal relationship with God,
Catholic teachings and ways to tackle inroads by Protestants, sustaining
faith and the need to maintain a watch over children while using new
technologies like internet and smart phone. Excerpts:
As we celebrate the year of consecrated life, how can we, as parents, encourage our children to take up this as their vocation?
Vocation is a call from God. First of all what we need is prayer from the part of parents. Second, set a good example to the children. Everyday my parents used to go to church and in the morning they used to pray Rosary for us. So I was always attached to the church… and as an altar boy I used to recite the prayers in Syriac language. I still remember how my parents used to talk about priests. With at most respect they used to talk about them, like they are men of God. If a priest visited our home, my mother would go and kneel before him and kiss his hands. If she cooked something special at home, we children were entrusted to take a share of it to the parish priests. Actually my parents never asked me whether I wanted to become a priest. My two sisters are nuns and my brother is a priest. Some of the examples of priests also motivated me to become a priest. At home, if the parents talk negatively about priests, children will never get an idea to become a priest or nun. To conclude, I would say that the vocation to priesthood is a gift of God and I got this gift of God, the vocation, through my parents. So the parents should take up the responsibility to make the children understand that it’s a sublime vocation.
Your Excellency, do you think Sunday catechism and family
unit meetings are enough for children, or even adults, to get into a
personal relationship with Jesus? If not, what else is necessary?
Sunday school is helping the children and youth to grow in
faith. Theoretical knowledge about faith can be given
through Sunday school. There also, children need good examples to get a
conviction about what they learn in Sunday school. In school or college,
or to become a good engineer, theoretical knowledge is sufficient. But
faith is a conviction. That’s why after teaching the disciples for 3
years Jesus asked them: "who do you say I am?" This He asked to know
whether they got the conviction "who He is". So whenever I talk to
Catechism teachers I tell them to give the children living examples and
conviction about what they learn.
Last week, when we priests were attending a retreat conducted by Fr Dominic Valanmanal, he spoke about his life experience of living in faith. That motivated me very much. Maybe I have learned the same or even more about faith theoretically but his life example inspired me. Good relationship with Jesus will give a good relationship with the church also. A good relationship with Jesus will always reflect in the relationship with our brethren and with the church. So children will never go away from the church when they become youth if they have good relationship with Jesus.
How can we prevent ourselves from getting into the trap of protestant teachings?
First of all, this happens because of our lack of
knowledge about our faith. We don’t know how to answer their questions
or express the correct knowledge about our faith... hence we can get
easily influenced by them. That’s why faith formation must be a
continued process. So we must have a platform to discuss our doubts. In
Catholic Church, we have three fortresses to protect our faith: 1. Word
of God; 2. The Magisterium or the official teaching of the church and 3.
The Sacred tradition or the teachings of the Fathers of the church. In
Catholic Church, the deposit of faith is never the teaching or
interpretation of one person, it’s the collective teaching. Unlike
protestant teachings, Catholic Church gives importance to the Sacred
traditions as a source of faith. it's never a thought or interpretation
of one person. It must always fall in line with or in the light of the
tradition of the church. It’s a teaching of 2,000 years. So in order not
to get influenced by wrong teachings, we must have platforms to discuss
and clear our doubts. Hence an ongoing adult faith formation is a must.
I know about one such platform. Parents’ (who are waiting in the church
to take their children back home from Catechism classes) get together
on Sundays and a resource person to guide them. Whenever we get doubts
about venerating Mother Mary or about matters of faith like purgatory
etc., we must have such platforms for discussion to clarify our doubts.
But somebody must be guiding the discussion.
As inter-caste marriages are on the rise in the diocese, what can be done about the situation? What's your assessment?
Why do we discourage inter-caste marriages? In marriage,
God is bringing together two persons, making them one in body, mind and
spirit. They have to be one in faith to be one in spirit. If faith is
not one, they can never become one in spirit. Actually speaking, they
cannot pray together. Even ideologically, they can be one. But the
foundation is not stable. If the one partner, who is not in Christian
faith, is willing to change his/ her faith then you can say it’s a
little better than keeping their different faith and getting married. In
that case, you can say it's 75 per cent solved. Because there are cases
of conversion and there are people who faithfully keep it. So if
somebody does that (conversion), it should not be as a mask just to
enter into marriage.
When the partners keep their different faith and get married, what about their children? I say this inter-caste marriage is a crime against their children. Which faith should they follow? Who will teach them? They are confusing their children. The Bible teaches no marriage is allowed with non-believers because you will lose your faith. But unfortunately many a time we have to give the consent letter. You know why? Some parents who are living in good faith find their children adamant in marrying someone from different faith. Seeing these parents' tears and fearing that if they're not allowed to marry in the church we may lose both, we give the consent. So to keep at least one in the Church we give dispensation. But that (inter-caste marriage) is not considered as a sacrament. To receive the sacrament of matrimony, both the partners must be Catholics. I take classes for the youth and when they understand the teaching even they say this kind of marriage must not be allowed in the Church.
What are the challenges before the diocese at present and
in the coming years? Has the diocese been able to take the message of
Jesus to interior regions of Maharashtra?
We have four missions. I can say, to a great extend, we
are able to take the message of Christ. Sangli mission is the topmost.
There we have social and charitable activities -- Christ witnessing
events. There was one priest in one of the villages. Every morning he
used to pray before the Holy Eucharist in the church. He told the
villagers if they have any prayer intentions they can give it to him so
that he can pray to God about it. One day, villagers asked whether they
can join the prayers. The priest agreed and together they started
praying. It so happened that the villagers found their intentions
answered and the number of people increased like 25-30.
One day, when I visited this place they were praying. All of them were Hindus but they were praying around the Holy Eucharist. All came to greet me touching my feet. The end result was that a whole village received our faith and we have a parish there just for Marathi people. There was nobody to oppose as the whole villagers took the decision together and not one person. It’s a small village comprising only 35 people. We don’t have any challenges at present or even recent times for our diocese. In most of the places, there is an understanding between us and other communities. The advantage they see is that we work for the poor out of love for our Lord and as per His commandment. We had crisis situation before but not at present. We have 185 priests in the diocese including the mission areas.
How can we prevent the young generation from endangering
themselves by modern technology? For example, smart phones and internet
etc...
A conscientisation must be given to the youth about this
through classes. We must keep a watchful eye on them. Only parents can
give that. Even in seminaries, our brothers are not allowed to use
personal cell phones. The use of computer by our children must be given
even more vigilant attention. Even though modern technologies have made
our life easier, it has many adverse effects as well. Distraction from
their studies is one of them. An enticing or tempting world has been
created by the digital world. So we have to be all the more watchful or
else there is every chance that our children will go wayward.
How can we encourage our youth to get involved in religious work?
What I suggest is give them various responsibilities,
guiding them from behind and correcting them whenever necessary. That
will make them more responsible and confident. When I visited Kalewadi
parish, Pune, I saw the second trustee was a young person -- from the
youth section. I was surprised. Children born and brought up in Kerala
are prompted to do things more responsibly than their counterparts in
Mumbai. Here in Mumbai, they are provided with whatever they need. So
they are not that self responsible. So it is better to train them,
giving responsibilities at a young age itself. Then they will do church
work without any reluctance. Entrusting them with responsibilities,
having confidence in them and giving proper guidance and correction are
necessary to make them responsible.
How can we the parishioners help you in your ministry?
What I feel is that members of Kalyan Diocese are a group
of people who love the church and the diocese. It's not me alone... but
also the priests who have visited here feel the same. People are more
co-operative here than in Kerala. It's not because here it is a small
number, but here we are responsible to build everything for us. In
Kerala, everything is provided. Here we can have a church only if we
personally contribute.
Each person plays an important role. Major Archbishop visited various churches in our diocese. After visiting these churches, the Major Archbishop asked me, how were you able to build these beautiful churches? I had to tell him, here in our diocese, we have people who are generously supportive and who collaborate with the church. It's because of the people of God we are able to build. Here we feel a sense of belongingness.
Your Excellency has turned 67 years, the diocese is 27
years old and this is your 18th year as Bishop. What do you feel when
you look back all these years?
I have satisfaction and joy. When I say joy, I didn’t have
any crisis situation at all. Satisfaction because Lord has done many
things for our diocese like helping us build churches, buying places
etc. We needed a minor seminary and a pastoral centre. All these we got
by His grace. That’s why this satisfaction. Another thing is we don’t
have any tension like big financial crisis or problems in relationship
between priests and the bishop or with the people.
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Sunday, 25 October 2015
‘Faith is a conviction… theoretical knowledge is not enough’
Monday, 19 October 2015
Many of us Christians behave like mummies in a museum
How serious are Christians in their faith? Many of the Christians -- Catholics included -- are not taking their faith seriously. I would rather say many of us are also-ran and behave like mummies in a museum. We are not seeking Jesus Our Lord; He is not considered as our Saviour and Redeemer.
For
many of us Christians, Church is some kind of a club to climb the social ladder
or get business deals. Many of us treat Church as a place to be seen and manage
things. And so the biggest threat of all gradually takes
shape: “the gray pragmatism of the daily life of the Church, in which all
appears to proceed normally, while in reality faith is wearing down and
degenerating into small-mindedness”.
As Evangelii Gaudium says, a “tomb psychology” thus develops and slowly transforms
Christians into mummies in a museum. Disillusioned with reality, with the
Church and with themselves, they experience a constant temptation to cling to a
faint melancholy, lacking in hope, which seizes the heart like “the most
precious of the devil’s potions”.
Called to radiate light and communicate
life, in the end they are caught up in things that generate only darkness and
inner weariness, and slowly consume all zeal for the apostolate.
Most of us are like the crowd that followed
Jesus when he went to the house of Jairus to see his sick daughter. (Please
read Mark 5:21-43). A big crowd was
milling around Jesus. They didn’t know know who Jesus really is. They just
followed him and saw His miracles. “Many of us are like the crowd that followed
Jesus. We don’t know him. We go for Holy Mass and sit in the church as if some
drama or cinema is going on there,” says Rev Fr Biju Kollamkunnel.This mentality was displayed by the crowd around Jesus who was on the way to Jairus’ house.
That said, there are some people who have deep faith and belief in Jesus like that woman who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. “When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.” Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering,” Bible says.
The small group of people like the sick woman seeks Jesus and trust in Him. And miracles happen in their life. This small group gets healed.
Mark 5:35 says, “while Jesus was still speaking, some people came from the house of Jairus, the synagogue leader. “Your daughter is dead,” they said. “Why bother the teacher anymore?” The people who said this don’t know Jesus. They didn’t know He was the son of God. If they had known that they wouldn’t have said this.
The Bible continues, “He went in and said to them, ’Why all this commotion and wailing? The child is not dead but asleep.’ But they laughed at him.” The Bible says “they laughed at him”. They thought Jesus arrived late and the daughter of Jairus has already died. So what can Jesus do now? The crowd underestimated Jesus. Later we read that Jesus brought her back to life.
Yes, we are also part of this crowd. We don’t know Jesus. We also behave like the way this crowd behaved. We attend the Holy Mass or praise and worship without knowing Him. We sit in the Church or prayer hall as if we are in a cinema hall or a theatre. And then, we call ourselves Christians.
Pope Francis uses harsh words to lambast such people. He says spiritual worldliness lurks behind a fascination with social and political gain, or pride in their ability to manage practical affairs, or an obsession with programmes of self-help and self-realization. It can also translate into a concern to be seen, into a social life full of appearances, meetings, dinners and receptions. It can also lead to a business mentality, caught up with management, statistics, plans and evaluations whose principal beneficiary is not God’s people but the Church as an institution.
This leads us to display a “tomb psychology” and slowly transforms Christians into mummies in a museum. Jesus doesn’t want us to be mummies.
Sunday, 18 October 2015
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Tuesday, 6 October 2015
Monday, 5 October 2015
Sanctify your secret life… Mene, mene, tekel, parsin, God warns
‘Do we have a secret life?
Yes, most of us have a bad and evil secret side. We don’t disclose this evil
life to anyone. Not even to priests or pastors. But Bible says very clearly
that we need to sanctify our secret life. We need to confess our sins, repent
our sins and reconcile with God.
Mene, mene, tekel, parsin’: This is God’s
warning to everyone, not to King Belshazzar alone.
We indulge in lot of things that God doesn’t
want us to do. This can be an adulterous life, addiction to porn, living a
sinful life without a sense of sin, violation of God’s commandments and refusal
to repent the sins, murder, character assassination etc. etc. Then we keep away
from people and society. We hide somewhere. We remain lonely, like Elijah in a
cave.
We must come out of that dark cave to the
sunlight. We must sanctify our secret life. Yes, sanctification through
confession, repentance and reconciliation. Sadly, we live like modern-day
Cains.
God
asked Cain: “where’s your brother Abel?” God is not questioning Cain alone –
He’s asking us also. Where’s the baby that I had given life in your wife’s
womb? You must ask yourself about the aborted child. It can be your aborted
child or your own father whom you despise or your neighbour with whom you have
an enmity. Your Abel may be your father, neighbour, brother or your own kids.
Rev Fr Nelson Job OCD, one of my favourite
charismatic preachers, vividly explained this recently on a television
programme. Fr Nelson quoted some good examples from Bible to drive home the
importance and necessity for sanctification of our secret life.
1. When you read King David’s story, you come
across an incident. When David was ruling as a “Mr Clean”, Prophet Nathan came
to his palace and told him a story. “There were two
men in a certain town, one rich and the other poor. The rich man had a very large number of sheep and cattle,
but the poor man had nothing except one little ewe
lamb he had bought. He raised it, and it grew up with him and his children. It
shared his food, drank from his cup and even slept in his arms. It was like a
daughter to him.
2. Let’s move to Daniel 5:25: "This is the inscription that was written: mene, mene, tekel, parsin.”
These words were written by a mysterious hand
on the wall of Belshazzar's palace, and interpreted by Daniel as predicting the
doom of the king and his dynasty.
Holy Bible says: Once when King Belshazzar
was giving a banquet to his lords and drinking wine from the golden vessels of
the Temple of Yhwh, a man's hand was seen writing on the wall certain
mysterious words. The king got frightened by the apparition and ordered his
astrologers to explain the inscription; but they were unable to read it. Daniel
was then summoned to the royal palace; and the king promised him costly
presents if he would decipher the inscription.
Daniel read it "Mene, mene, tekel,
parsin" and explained it to mean that God had "numbered" the
kingdom of Belshazzar and brought it to an end; that the king had been weighed
and found wanting; and that his kingdom was divided and given to the Medes and
Persians.
Yes, these words -- Mene, mene, tekel, parsin
– are supposed to sanctify our secret life. These are warning words against
your evil secret life.
3. Come to 2 Kings 20:1: Hezekiah became ill and
was at the point of death. The prophet Isaiah son of Amoz went to him and said,
"This is what the Lord says: Put your house in order, because you are
going to die; you will not recover." Hezekiah then knew that God had come
to know about his secret life. He repented and prayed. Amoz then came back and
said God had extended his life by another 15 years.
When he was able to sanctify his life, God
extended his life span.
4. Fr Nelson narrated an incident. Once a lady,
with foul-smelling wounds came for a charismatic prayer retreat. After the
retreat, she was admitted to the hospital from where she requested him to come
and pray for her. When he went there, he understood her physical condition was
very weak and struggled to sit in the room because of the intense bad odour
from her festering wounds. She gave a long confession that lasted for 20
minutes. She told the priest about many secret deeds that she committed over
several years --- things she had never disclosed so far. She repented. The he
got a message from Jesus that she is being healed. After around 20 days, all
her wounds were healed and she regained normal health.
The message is simple: sanctify your secret
life and God will shower His blessings. But you have committed several sins and still living with these sins.
5. Lets turn to John 4:16:
“Jesus told her (Samaritan woman), “Go, call your husband and come back.” “I have no husband,” she replied. Jesus
said to her, “You are right when you say you have no
husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and
the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite
true.”
When Jesus revealed her secret life, she
confessed. Jesus gave her a spring of water welling up to
eternal life.
Jesus makes it clear: Sanctify your secret
life.
6. John 8:7 says: “When they kept on
questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who
is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” People who were about to throw stones at a prostitute were
taken aback. Their hands went down, stones fell.
Jesus
revealed their secret life. They were all big-time sinners. The woman – Mary
Magdalene – repented and turned to God. She became a new creation after the
sanctification of her secret life.
In
short, sanctification is a key process to achieve eternal life. We need to realize
it before it’s too late.
Monday, 28 September 2015
Stand up, raise your hands and pray... we don't have faith
When Rev Fr Lijo Brahmakulam started his bike on a Monday morning to rush for an urgent meeting, a man came running to him. “Father, please bless this rosary for me,” he told the father. “Can you come later? I’m urgently going somewhere… please come some other time,” Fr Lijo told that man.
However, as the guy, a Hindu, was persistent, Fr Lijo got curious and sought an explanation. The story is something like this: his daughter couldn’t sleep in the night and she used to stay awake and cry. Almost a year ago, a priest gave him a blessed rosary for his daughter. Lo and behold, his daughter started sleeping well after wearing the rosary. However, two days ago, she lost this rosary and she was back to square one. She couldn’t sleep at night for two days. So an anxious father came running to the priest to get a rosary blessed for her.
The bottom line is that a non-Christian believed in the power of a blessed rosary. A Hindu by religion, he had faith in the power of Jesus Christ. His faith worked a miracle for him. The power of Lord’s protection surrounded his daughter. When she lost the rosary, his daughter was bereft of this power.
We Christians don’t have faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. I have heard priests and pastors saying that non-Christians getting blessings and grace abundantly from Jesus. Christians attend numerous prayer meetings, worships, adoration, Holy Mass and wear rosary, but we hardly have any faith. There's no change in us. The result is that we don’t get blessings and grace from our Lord. There will be at least ten rosaries in a Catholic family. However, there’s no blessing and grace of Lord in that family. Why?
Please read Luke 17:6: Jesus replied, "If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, 'Be uprooted and planted in the sea,' and it will obey you.” We have little faith in Jesus. We don't take His presence seriously. That's the reason for sons and daughters going wayward and going out of the protective cover of Jesus Christ. They get into the trap laid by devil.
Rev Fr Dominic Valanmanal, Director of Marian Retreat Centre, Anakkara, India, says, “it's time that we stand up and raise our hands, pray and seek His blessings. We don't do that. When we pray, we don't pray with faith." Both Fr Dominic and Fr Lijo ask faithful to raise their hands, day and night, and pray. You may be in a depressed state or facing a nervous breakdown. You may be unhappy over lot of things. Your children are going out of control. You are on the verge of losing your job... Whatever it's. "You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book, says Psalms 56:8.
God is listening. Not a drop of your tear will go waste. When the appropriate moment or situation comes, your prayers will be answered. You must have that faith and conviction. "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours," says Mark 11:24. Again, lets go James 1:6, "but when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind."
However, our problem is that we pray without any faith. Sometimes, our prayers are mechanical. For example, the family prayer in many Christian homes has become mechanical or as some kind of routine like brushing the teeth or taking bath. It's of no use. When you pray, pray seriously, stand up and raise your hands to heaven. No doubt, heaven will open up and you will get abundant blessings. The answer to your prayer will be instant if you follow what Jesus tells us in Bible. God won't listen to your prayer if have enmity, revenge or jealousy to anybody. Leave all that aside, and make peace with your enemy.
In Bible, we read about a religious leader named Jairus. His daughter was lying on her deathbed and so Jairus goes to Jesus and tells him about his situation. As soon as Jairus spoke his faith, Jesus was attracted by that faith and went with him. That's faith.
If you pray intensely and with faith, God will answer your prayers. In Mathew chapter 17, Bible tells us disciples were unable perform a miracle. "When they came to the crowd, a man approached Jesus and knelt before him. “Lord, have mercy on my son,” he said. “He has seizures and is suffering greatly. He often falls into the fire or into the water. I brought him to your disciples, but they could not heal him.” “You unbelieving and perverse generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy here to me.” Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of the boy, and he was healed at that moment. Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, “Why couldn’t we drive it out?” says Mathew 17:14-19. Jesus then made the mustard seed comment.
The fact is that if you have faith as much as the mustard seed, even you will be able to perform miracles that Jesus did. But we pray with several "ifs and buts". We do it mechanically as some kind of ritual. Pray with passion and devotion. Pray during day and night. Pray when everyone is asleep. It's also a way of walking with Jesus. It will help us in keeping devil at bay.
However, as the guy, a Hindu, was persistent, Fr Lijo got curious and sought an explanation. The story is something like this: his daughter couldn’t sleep in the night and she used to stay awake and cry. Almost a year ago, a priest gave him a blessed rosary for his daughter. Lo and behold, his daughter started sleeping well after wearing the rosary. However, two days ago, she lost this rosary and she was back to square one. She couldn’t sleep at night for two days. So an anxious father came running to the priest to get a rosary blessed for her.
The bottom line is that a non-Christian believed in the power of a blessed rosary. A Hindu by religion, he had faith in the power of Jesus Christ. His faith worked a miracle for him. The power of Lord’s protection surrounded his daughter. When she lost the rosary, his daughter was bereft of this power.
We Christians don’t have faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. I have heard priests and pastors saying that non-Christians getting blessings and grace abundantly from Jesus. Christians attend numerous prayer meetings, worships, adoration, Holy Mass and wear rosary, but we hardly have any faith. There's no change in us. The result is that we don’t get blessings and grace from our Lord. There will be at least ten rosaries in a Catholic family. However, there’s no blessing and grace of Lord in that family. Why?
Please read Luke 17:6: Jesus replied, "If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, 'Be uprooted and planted in the sea,' and it will obey you.” We have little faith in Jesus. We don't take His presence seriously. That's the reason for sons and daughters going wayward and going out of the protective cover of Jesus Christ. They get into the trap laid by devil.
Rev Fr Dominic Valanmanal, Director of Marian Retreat Centre, Anakkara, India, says, “it's time that we stand up and raise our hands, pray and seek His blessings. We don't do that. When we pray, we don't pray with faith." Both Fr Dominic and Fr Lijo ask faithful to raise their hands, day and night, and pray. You may be in a depressed state or facing a nervous breakdown. You may be unhappy over lot of things. Your children are going out of control. You are on the verge of losing your job... Whatever it's. "You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book, says Psalms 56:8.
God is listening. Not a drop of your tear will go waste. When the appropriate moment or situation comes, your prayers will be answered. You must have that faith and conviction. "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours," says Mark 11:24. Again, lets go James 1:6, "but when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind."
However, our problem is that we pray without any faith. Sometimes, our prayers are mechanical. For example, the family prayer in many Christian homes has become mechanical or as some kind of routine like brushing the teeth or taking bath. It's of no use. When you pray, pray seriously, stand up and raise your hands to heaven. No doubt, heaven will open up and you will get abundant blessings. The answer to your prayer will be instant if you follow what Jesus tells us in Bible. God won't listen to your prayer if have enmity, revenge or jealousy to anybody. Leave all that aside, and make peace with your enemy.
In Bible, we read about a religious leader named Jairus. His daughter was lying on her deathbed and so Jairus goes to Jesus and tells him about his situation. As soon as Jairus spoke his faith, Jesus was attracted by that faith and went with him. That's faith.
If you pray intensely and with faith, God will answer your prayers. In Mathew chapter 17, Bible tells us disciples were unable perform a miracle. "When they came to the crowd, a man approached Jesus and knelt before him. “Lord, have mercy on my son,” he said. “He has seizures and is suffering greatly. He often falls into the fire or into the water. I brought him to your disciples, but they could not heal him.” “You unbelieving and perverse generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy here to me.” Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of the boy, and he was healed at that moment. Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and asked, “Why couldn’t we drive it out?” says Mathew 17:14-19. Jesus then made the mustard seed comment.
The fact is that if you have faith as much as the mustard seed, even you will be able to perform miracles that Jesus did. But we pray with several "ifs and buts". We do it mechanically as some kind of ritual. Pray with passion and devotion. Pray during day and night. Pray when everyone is asleep. It's also a way of walking with Jesus. It will help us in keeping devil at bay.
Saturday, 26 September 2015
What about you? Are you ready for the mission?
Every Christian man and woman has received a mission to help build up the Church.
What about you? It’s nobody else but Pope Francis, head of the Catholic Church, who asked this question.
Pope, who is on a US visit, said fulfilling that responsibility will require "creativity in adapting to changed situations" and called for "a much more active engagement on the part of the laity." The Pope’s words came during his homily at Mass celebrated with Bishops, Clergy and Religious in the Cathedral of Saints Peter and Paul in Philadelphia.
The city is the final leg of his 6-day pastoral visit to the US and the venue for the Church’s World Meeting of Families.
“This morning I learned something about the history of this beautiful Cathedral: the story behind its high walls and windows. I would like to think, though, that the history of the Church in this city and state is really a story not about building walls, but about breaking them down,” Pope Francis said. It is a story about generation after generation of committed Catholics going out to the peripheries, and building communities of worship, education, charity and service to the larger society.
That story is seen in the many shrines which dot this city, and the many parish churches whose towers and steeples speak of God’s presence in the midst of our communities. It is seen in the efforts of all those dedicated priests, religious and laity who for over two centuries have ministered to the spiritual needs of the poor, the immigrant, the sick and those in prison. “And it is seen in the hundreds of schools where religious brothers and sisters trained children to read and write, to love God and neighbor, and to contribute as good citizens to the life of American society. All of this is a great legacy which you have received, and which you have been called to enrich and pass on,” Pope Francis said.
He spoke about the story of Saint Katharine Drexel, one of the great saints raised up by the local Church.
When she spoke to Pope Leo XIII of the needs of the missions, the Pope – he was a very wise Pope! – asked her pointedly: “What about you? What are you going to do?” Those words changed Katharine’s life, because they reminded her that, in the end, every Christian man and woman, by virtue of baptism, has received a mission. Each one of us has to respond, as best we can, to the Lord’s call to build up his Body, the Church, he said.
What about you? “I would like to dwell on two aspects of these words in the context of our particular mission to transmit the joy of the Gospel and to build up the Church, whether as priests, deacons, or members of institutes of consecrated life,” Pope said.
First, those words (What about you?) were addressed to a young person, a young woman with high ideals, and they changed her life. They made her think of the immense work that had to be done, and to realize that she was being called to do her part. How many young people in our parishes and schools have the same high ideals, generosity of spirit, and love for Christ and the Church! Do we challenge them? Do we make space for them and help them to do their part? ... to find ways of sharing their enthusiasm and gifts with communities, above all in works of mercy and concern for others? Do we share our own joy and enthusiasm in serving the Lord?” Pope Francis said.
One of the great challenges facing the Church in this generation is to foster in all the faithful a sense of personal responsibility for the Church’s mission, and to enable them to fulfill that responsibility as missionary disciples, as a leaven of the Gospel in our world, he said. This will require creativity in adapting to changed situations, carrying forward the legacy of the past not primarily by maintaining our structures and institutions, which have served us well, but above all by being open to the possibilities which the Spirit opens up to us and communicating the joy of the Gospel, daily and in every season of our life, Pope said.
“What about you?” It is significant that those words of the elderly Pope were also addressed to a lay woman. “We know that the future of the Church in a rapidly changing society will call, and even now calls, for a much more active engagement on the part of the laity. The Church in the United States has always devoted immense effort to the work of catechesis and education. Our challenge today is to build on those solid foundations and to foster a sense of collaboration and shared responsibility in planning for the future of our parishes and institutions,” he said.
This does not mean relinquishing the spiritual authority with which we have been entrusted; rather, it means discerning and employing wisely the manifold gifts which the Spirit pours out upon the Church. In a particular way, it means valuing the immense contribution which women, lay and religious, have made and continue to make, to the life of our communities.
Pope thanked everyone for the way in which they answered Jesus’ question which inspired their own vocation: “What about you?” “I encourage you to be renewed in the joy of that first encounter with Jesus and to draw from that joy renewed fidelity and strength. I look forward to being with you in these days and I ask you to bring my affectionate greetings to those who could not be with us, especially the many elderly priests and religious who join us in spirit,” he said.
“During these days of the World Meeting of Families, I would ask you in a particular way to reflect on our ministry to families, to couples preparing for marriage, and to our young people. I know how much is being done in your local Churches to respond to the needs of families and to support them in their journey of faith. I ask you to pray fervently for them, and for the deliberations of the forthcoming Synod on the Family,” Pope said.
Friday, 25 September 2015
Pope Francis in the United States
Pope Francis greets Sister Marie Mathilde, 102 years old, at the Jeanne Jugan Residence in Washington, D.C., Sept. 23, 2015. Photo courtesy of the Little Sisters of the Poor |
Pope Francis on Thursday (24th September) made history by becoming the first Pope ever to address a joint session of the United States Congress |
Pope gives impromptu greeting to crowds in Washington Mall |
U.S. President Barack Obama and Pope Francis walk through the colonnade prior to an Oval Office meeting on September 23, 2015 |
Wednesday, 16 September 2015
Get out of that pigsty, repent and return to the house
"Its better if my son dies," said a parent. He thinks that his wayward son is a burden to the family and society.
Even brothers and sisters also talk among themselves: "it's better if he/she dies. Why should he/she live in this manner?" Why do they say this? He or she is living in the same way as the prodigal son (Bible parable) lived in the pigsty. They don't want to see him or her living in such miserable and sinful environment.
Yes, we human beings talk in this manner, but our God doesn't say anything like this about a person. God doesn't want a person to be destroyed or trapped by Devil. God waits. He has lot of patience. He's waiting for the lost son to come back. He led a sinful life, but God waits patiently to see the return of the prodigal son. True, he left my house, but God is waiting for his return.
People who keep away from God are the ones who lost their wisdom. God is eager that people should get the wisdom back. These thoughts are from Rev Fr Mathew Peruvelil.
God loves everyone. When we come to the parable of the prodigal son, we know that the prodigal son did a stupid thing. He took his share of wealth from the father and left for a distant place. He secured his entire share from the father and there was nothing left out. When we read the Bible we know that what he did was a folly. The prodigal son thought he can live a good life without any control. There was no one to caution or warn him against doing anything wrong or sinful. He destroyed his wealth slowly and steadily. When he was losing wealth, he didn't care to think how he would survive when he becomes totally bankrupt.
This prodigal son left a prosperous house -- a house which did not face shortage. He slowly slipped into a troubled state of living once he stepped out of his father's prosperous house. He didn't know what was happening to him. Actually this prodigal son was throwing away all the good things that God had given him. He faced only failures, unhappiness and losses when he left his father's house. Finally he lost everything that his father had given as his share. Then there was a big famine in the region and he found it tough to survive the famine. He approached another man for a job and he was given the task of looking after pigs. The prodigal son wasn't told or given any assurance about the food. Hungry without any food, he desired to have the food which was given to pigs. His impecunious state then reached its peak.
Then he told himself: I will go back to may father's house. His father's servants were living a good life with good food. The waste in his father's house is thrown into the pigsty. There's no shortage in his father's house.
The wisdom about going back to his father's dawned on him quite late. When he fell into bad times, the Holy Spirit gave him the idea of going back to his father's house. When we sin and turn away from God, we leave all the blessings and grace showered by God in our lives like the way the prodigal son left his father's prosperous house and eventually lost everything. "When we wallow in sin, we plunge to new depths of sorrows, unhappiness and a miserable life. This is the state of a man who sins. When he sins, he loses all blessings, grace and all the fruits of Holy Spirit and become like the prodigal son. When he sins again and again, his sinful life leads him to new lows of misery and spiritual poverty," Rev Fr Peruvelil said in a television talk.
When we sin again and again, the Spirit of God may give us a thought: like the prodigal son got the late wisdom, in our father's house everyone is prosperous and happy. There's no shortage there. God is calling out to come back to His house and regain the blessings that we lost by sinning repeatedly. "The house that I left, in my father's house, there's blessing and grace. That's a life of happiness and without any complaints. A life of prosperity. I had left that prosperous house once. I got stuck like a lamb in the thorns. The thorn of sins gives me wounds. Many of these wounds become bigger and bigger and it becomes more painful," he said.
"We must go back to our father's house. This return to the father's house is very important. After leading a sinful life, we must think about our father's good house... that I was born in a good house... I want to return to my father's house. It was a bad decision to leave my father's house. I lost all the blessings and grace," he said. When we return, we might think that we are not eligible to live in that house and we should ask our father to allow us as one of the servants. I have no right to go back and live in the house as I had left that home once with my share. I managed to lose everything once and I have no right to ask for more. My father never abuses or mistreats any servant in his house. I request my father to admit me as one of the servants.
Read Sirach 6:2-4: "Do not let your passions carry you away; this can tear your soul to pieces like a bull. You will be left like a dead tree without any leaves or fruit. Evil desire will destroy you and make you a joke to your enemies." Yes, passions can leave you like a dead tree without any fruit or leaves. This is what happened to the prodigal son. This will happen to us when we get into a sinful life. Passions can tear your soul to pieces like a bull. When we violate the commandments of our Lord and sin against Him, our soul is being torn to pieces like a bull. So we should remain in the father's house. Once you go out of the father's house, the bull will tear your soul to pieces.
Look at Sirach 17:24-26: "Yet to those who repent he grants a return, and he encourages those whose endurance is failing. Turn to the Lord and forsake your sins; pray in his presence and lessen your offenses. Return to the Most High and turn away from iniquity, and hate abominations intensely." We must return to our father's house. We can lead a prosperous and happy life in our father's house. When we confess our sins and reconcile with the father, he will welcome us with open arms. In fact, God is calling us back. He loves us. "He's waiting for us to return. As we read in the parable of prodigal son, the father will run to us and embrace us. He will ask his servants to give us food, ring, clothes and a good bath. He will bring us to the original position -- the position before we left him, abandoned him. Actually we go back to the father seeking a servant's job, but the father gives more. He will reinstate us to the original position. He will raise us back to the position of his son," Rev Fr Peruvelil said.
This happened because the father is a loving person. It's not because the prodigal son deserved or wanted it.
Isaiah 1:18 says: "Come now, let us settle the matter," says the Lord. "Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool."
Our life was very bad. We led a sinful life. Come back to Lord. Then Lord will make you as white as snow though your sins are like scarlet. Are you in a mess created by sins? Don't worry. We will settle the matter, says the Lord.
Get rid of your old lifestyle, a life covered by sins. Get out of pigsty. When Israelites went wayward, God still loved them. God doesn't want to lose a single person. He doesn't forsake any sinner. God never wants anyone to go away from Him. There will be big happiness in heaven when a sinner repents.
Even brothers and sisters also talk among themselves: "it's better if he/she dies. Why should he/she live in this manner?" Why do they say this? He or she is living in the same way as the prodigal son (Bible parable) lived in the pigsty. They don't want to see him or her living in such miserable and sinful environment.
Yes, we human beings talk in this manner, but our God doesn't say anything like this about a person. God doesn't want a person to be destroyed or trapped by Devil. God waits. He has lot of patience. He's waiting for the lost son to come back. He led a sinful life, but God waits patiently to see the return of the prodigal son. True, he left my house, but God is waiting for his return.
People who keep away from God are the ones who lost their wisdom. God is eager that people should get the wisdom back. These thoughts are from Rev Fr Mathew Peruvelil.
God loves everyone. When we come to the parable of the prodigal son, we know that the prodigal son did a stupid thing. He took his share of wealth from the father and left for a distant place. He secured his entire share from the father and there was nothing left out. When we read the Bible we know that what he did was a folly. The prodigal son thought he can live a good life without any control. There was no one to caution or warn him against doing anything wrong or sinful. He destroyed his wealth slowly and steadily. When he was losing wealth, he didn't care to think how he would survive when he becomes totally bankrupt.
This prodigal son left a prosperous house -- a house which did not face shortage. He slowly slipped into a troubled state of living once he stepped out of his father's prosperous house. He didn't know what was happening to him. Actually this prodigal son was throwing away all the good things that God had given him. He faced only failures, unhappiness and losses when he left his father's house. Finally he lost everything that his father had given as his share. Then there was a big famine in the region and he found it tough to survive the famine. He approached another man for a job and he was given the task of looking after pigs. The prodigal son wasn't told or given any assurance about the food. Hungry without any food, he desired to have the food which was given to pigs. His impecunious state then reached its peak.
Then he told himself: I will go back to may father's house. His father's servants were living a good life with good food. The waste in his father's house is thrown into the pigsty. There's no shortage in his father's house.
The wisdom about going back to his father's dawned on him quite late. When he fell into bad times, the Holy Spirit gave him the idea of going back to his father's house. When we sin and turn away from God, we leave all the blessings and grace showered by God in our lives like the way the prodigal son left his father's prosperous house and eventually lost everything. "When we wallow in sin, we plunge to new depths of sorrows, unhappiness and a miserable life. This is the state of a man who sins. When he sins, he loses all blessings, grace and all the fruits of Holy Spirit and become like the prodigal son. When he sins again and again, his sinful life leads him to new lows of misery and spiritual poverty," Rev Fr Peruvelil said in a television talk.
When we sin again and again, the Spirit of God may give us a thought: like the prodigal son got the late wisdom, in our father's house everyone is prosperous and happy. There's no shortage there. God is calling out to come back to His house and regain the blessings that we lost by sinning repeatedly. "The house that I left, in my father's house, there's blessing and grace. That's a life of happiness and without any complaints. A life of prosperity. I had left that prosperous house once. I got stuck like a lamb in the thorns. The thorn of sins gives me wounds. Many of these wounds become bigger and bigger and it becomes more painful," he said.
"We must go back to our father's house. This return to the father's house is very important. After leading a sinful life, we must think about our father's good house... that I was born in a good house... I want to return to my father's house. It was a bad decision to leave my father's house. I lost all the blessings and grace," he said. When we return, we might think that we are not eligible to live in that house and we should ask our father to allow us as one of the servants. I have no right to go back and live in the house as I had left that home once with my share. I managed to lose everything once and I have no right to ask for more. My father never abuses or mistreats any servant in his house. I request my father to admit me as one of the servants.
Read Sirach 6:2-4: "Do not let your passions carry you away; this can tear your soul to pieces like a bull. You will be left like a dead tree without any leaves or fruit. Evil desire will destroy you and make you a joke to your enemies." Yes, passions can leave you like a dead tree without any fruit or leaves. This is what happened to the prodigal son. This will happen to us when we get into a sinful life. Passions can tear your soul to pieces like a bull. When we violate the commandments of our Lord and sin against Him, our soul is being torn to pieces like a bull. So we should remain in the father's house. Once you go out of the father's house, the bull will tear your soul to pieces.
Look at Sirach 17:24-26: "Yet to those who repent he grants a return, and he encourages those whose endurance is failing. Turn to the Lord and forsake your sins; pray in his presence and lessen your offenses. Return to the Most High and turn away from iniquity, and hate abominations intensely." We must return to our father's house. We can lead a prosperous and happy life in our father's house. When we confess our sins and reconcile with the father, he will welcome us with open arms. In fact, God is calling us back. He loves us. "He's waiting for us to return. As we read in the parable of prodigal son, the father will run to us and embrace us. He will ask his servants to give us food, ring, clothes and a good bath. He will bring us to the original position -- the position before we left him, abandoned him. Actually we go back to the father seeking a servant's job, but the father gives more. He will reinstate us to the original position. He will raise us back to the position of his son," Rev Fr Peruvelil said.
This happened because the father is a loving person. It's not because the prodigal son deserved or wanted it.
Isaiah 1:18 says: "Come now, let us settle the matter," says the Lord. "Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool."
Our life was very bad. We led a sinful life. Come back to Lord. Then Lord will make you as white as snow though your sins are like scarlet. Are you in a mess created by sins? Don't worry. We will settle the matter, says the Lord.
Get rid of your old lifestyle, a life covered by sins. Get out of pigsty. When Israelites went wayward, God still loved them. God doesn't want to lose a single person. He doesn't forsake any sinner. God never wants anyone to go away from Him. There will be big happiness in heaven when a sinner repents.
Sunday, 6 September 2015
Why are you mistreating your father and mother?
How do we treat our mothers, especially in their old ages? Are we treating our parents with love, care and affection when they grow old and frail? Well, if you visit some of the old-age homes, it’s crystal clear that many of us mistreat our parents and show a lack of respect and consideration for the elderly and their dignity.
This is abominable and a mortal sin. It's also a crime in many countries.
Even then, when it comes to mistreatment of parents, developed and developing countries are all in the same boat. In developing countries like India, sons and daughters dump their parents in some old age home. This mostly happens after the sons and daughters get a good job, house and a decent bank balance. They consider old and sick parents as liabilities. In developed nations like the US and Europe, elders are abandoned by their kids, forcing them to fend for themselves. Children don’t show love, care and affection to their parents. Beware, hell is waiting for such sons who mistreat their parents.
When we think about our father and mother, Mother Mary’s image flashes through one’s mind. On September 8, Christians (especially Syrian, Coptic an Ethiopian Orthodox churches) celebrate the Nativity of Mary, or Birth of the Virgin Mary. Just hours before His death on the cross in Calvary, Jesus called John and entrusted Mother Mary to his care, saying “this is your mother.”
Our Lord didn't abandon His mother. Jesus then told Mother Mary: "this is your son." There's a message here.
The Church says it's a mortal sin to abandon the parents. “It’s is a mortal sin to discard our elderly. If we do not learn to look after and to respect our elderly, we will be treated in the same way. A society where the elderly are discarded carries within it the virus of death,” Pope Francis recently said. The biblical commandment that requires us to honour our parents, understood broadly, reminds us of the honour we must show to all elderly people. God associates a double promise with this commandment: “that you may have a long life” (Ex 20:12) and, the other, “that you might prosper” (Dt 5:16). In short, if you respect your parents and take care of them, you will live for a longer time. That’s a promise from God.
Pope Francis says the Bible reserves a severe warning for those who neglect or mistreat their parents (cf. Ex 21:17; Lv 20:9). The same judgement applies today when parents, having become older and less useful, are marginalized to the point of abandonment. And there are so many examples. “Even educated people from wealthy families abandon their elderly parents. This happens even in Christian families,” says Rev Fr Biju Kollamkunnel, a Mumbai-based priest.
If you pay a visit to the old age homes in your country, you will see many elderly people from well-to-do families. It’s not that they don’t have children and houses. They have been dumped in old-age homes by their own children. The Church says this is a mortal sin. A person who commits a mortal sin is one who knows that their sin is wrong, but still deliberately commits the sin anyway. This means that mortal sins are "premeditated" by the sinner and thus are truly a rejection of God’s law and love. He’s then willfully cutting off God’s grace.
This is like playing into the hands of devil. One day you will also grow old. Then the same fate may start haunting you. Your own children will then abandon you. History will repeat. So act wisely. Take care of your parents and elderly people. And assure a place in heaven... not hell.
Friday, 4 September 2015
The photo that shocked the world
'I was only hoping to provide a better life for my children,’ father of drowned migrant boy says
LONDON — The
Globe and Mail
Last updated
Had the rubber dinghy carrying Alan Kurdi and
his family made it to their destination – the Greek island
of Kos – they would have just been
four more faces in the tide of humanity that has crossed the frontiers of Europe and the West this year.
Perhaps they would have been interviewed as
they staggered ashore, or melted into the streams of migrants arriving by land
and sea, fleeing the wars of the Middle East and central Asia.
Even if their arrivals had been noted, the names of the Kurdi family would have
been forgotten by now.
But the rubber dinghy carrying the Kurdis
never made it to Kos, instead capsizing in the rough seas just off the coast of
Turkey.
And now everyone knows the name of Alan Kurdi, the three-year-old boy in the
red T-shirt whose dead body washed up at a beach resort, captured in a
photograph that somehow, finally, made the world wonder and worry about the
rest of those desperately trying to reach the West.
In the picture, little Alan looks somehow
unscathed, as if he were just taking a nap in the pristine beaches of Bodrum.
But his journey was anything but peaceful.
His father, Abdullah Kurdi, told Syria’s
opposition Radio Rozana that his wife and two sons died one by one in his arms
on Wednesday as they clung to an overturned dinghy in waves just off the
Turkish coast. He said he had paid €4,000 ($5,860) for four spaces on the
five-metre-long rubber craft, which was crammed with 12 passengers for the
journey to Kos, just four kilometres away. It
was supposed to be a 30-minute trip.
“When we were away from
the Turkish coast, oh my God the waves, we died. The Turk [smuggler] jumped
into the sea, then a wave came and flipped us over. I grabbed my sons and wife
and we held onto the boat,” Mr. Kurdi said, speaking slowly in Arabic and
struggling at times for words.
“We stayed like that for
an hour, then the first [son] died and I left him so I could help the other,
then the second died, so I left him as well to help his mom and I found her
dead. … what do I do. … I spent three hours waiting for the coast guard to
come. The life jackets we were wearing were all fake.”
Soon afterward, Kurdi
collapsed into sobs, bringing the interview to an end. “My wife is my world and
I have nothing, by God. I don’t even think of getting married again or having
more kids. … I am choking, I cannot breathe. They died in my arms.”
Tiny Alan and his five-year-old brother Ghalib
– who also died in the water on Wednesday – would have only known war and
flight during their short lives. The family lived in Damascus,
where Mr. Kurdi worked as a barber, before the 2011 outbreak of Syria’s civil
war.
As the violence closed in, they moved first to
Aleppo, a city in northern Syria that
quickly became one of the war’s most contested battlegrounds. So they moved
again to Kobani, a Kurdish enclave near the Turkish border. Then the family
fled into Turkey
after Kobani was captured by Islamic State (IS) – also known by its Arabic
acronym Daesh – late last year.
Kobani is now under the control of Kurdish
militias, who recaptured it with help of a U.S.-led bombing campaign. However,
much of the city was reduced to rubble in the fighting, and Kobani remains the
scene of regular clashes between Kurdish forces and IS.
“Daesh has taken
everything from us. We came to the Turkish government and they were useless,”
Mr. Kurdi said in the radio interview. “I couldn’t provide anything to my
children, and my parents were helping us with the essentials even though I had
a small salary.”
Kurdi’s
brother Mohammad and his four children reportedly applied for refugee status in
Canada,
where the family has relatives who sponsored the application, but were rejected
in June. Relatives claimed that rejection helped spur Abdullah Kurdi to make
the “bad” decision to attempt to reach Kos.
Two dinghies capsized in
the water off the Turkish coast on Wednesday, leaving a total of 12 people
dead. Their deaths were just the latest in a year that has seen more than 2,500
people – many of them from war-torn places such as Syria,
Iraq, Libya, Sudan
and Afghanistan – die trying
to reach Europe.
In the apparent start of a
crackdown on the people-smuggling rings that have profited from those risky
journeys, Turkish media reported that police had arrested four men on Thursday,
all Syrian nationals. They were charged with “causing the death of more than
one person,” as well as “trafficking migrants.”
The bodies of Kurdi’s wife and children were
at a morgue in southern Turkey
on Thursday, waiting to be transferred back to Kobani for burial.
Kurdi
told a Turkish reporter that after burying his family he intended to take up
arms to fight against Islamic State.
He also claimed that the Canadian government
had contacted him to offer citizenship in the wake of the much-publicized
tragedy, but that he had declined. Citizenship and Immigration Canada denied
Thursday that any such offer had been made.
“I will return to Kobani to fight against
Daesh,” he said. “I have nothing to live for. I will not go to Canada despite the invitation, nor to Europe. I’m not crazy about living in those places. I was
only hoping to provide a better life for my children. I have nothing now, no
family, no life. But I am now speaking for other refugees so that perhaps they
will be saved.”
But what awaits him in Kobani is likely more
misery. Redur Xelil, a spokesman for the YPG Kurdish militia poised near the
front lines of Kobani, said a “state of vigilance” had taken hold for now in
the town, which has been a battleground for Kurdish fighters and the Islamic State
since September, 2014.
For the moment, fighting is “sporadic,” and
includes sniper fire and bombardment, Xelil said in a telephone interview. “We
are not fully engaged [in the battlefield], but we expect Daesh to make an
attack,” he said.
He said the fighters knew little of the
day-to-day lives of civilians in the town, who were able to return to their
homes after U.S.-led air strikes allowed Kurdish fighters to regain control of
the town in 2015. The story of little Alan Kurdi and his family had touched the
fighters too.
“Surely this represents a silent tragedy
suffered by Kurds in particular, and Syrians in general,” Xelil said.
Saturday, 15 August 2015
This is not theology of rape... it's Devil's theory of destruction. The story of these children can move you to tears
This New York Times story moved me to tears. I cried after reading this story. No doubt, Devil is working overtime in Middle East. When I think of those poor children, I'm unable to fathom: God why this is happening? My daughter is of the same age -- barely 13 years.
The perpetrators of such crimes are misinterpreting the religious book to commit heinous crimes like abuse of children and slavery. I strongly believe this "theology of rape" is nothing but Devil's theory. They are possessed by Devil.
When I see the face of my daughter, my eyes become moist; children of my daughter's age are being abused, raped and sacrificed in some other part of the world... and I am unable to do anything to prevent it. I think the conscience of the world must wake up... God save those children.
LINK: (http://www.nytimes.com/2015/08/14/world/middleeast/isis-enshrines-a-theology-of-rape.html?_r=0).
NEW YORK TIMES STORY
ISIS Enshrines a Theology of Rape
Claiming the
Quran’s support, the Islamic State codifies sex slavery in conquered regions of Iraq
and Syria
and uses the practice as a recruiting tool.
Written by RUKMINI CALLIMACHI
AUGUST
QADIYA,
Iraq — In the moments before he raped the 12-year-old girl, the Islamic State
fighter took the time to explain that what he was about to do was not a sin.
Because the preteen girl practiced a religion other than Islam, the Quran not
only gave him the right to rape her — it condoned and encouraged it, he
insisted.
He bound her hands and gagged her. Then he knelt beside
the bed and prostrated himself in prayer before getting on top of her.
When it was over, he knelt to pray again, bookending the
rape with acts of religious devotion.
“I kept telling him it hurts — please stop,” said the
girl, whose body is so small an adult could circle her waist with two hands.
“He told me that according to Islam he is allowed to rape an unbeliever. He
said that by raping me, he is drawing closer to God,” she said in an interview
alongside her family in a refugee camp here, to which she escaped after 11
months of captivity.
The systematic rape of women and girls from the Yazidi
religious minority has become deeply enmeshed in the organization and the
radical theology of the Islamic State in the year since the group announced it
was reviving slavery as an institution. Interviews with 21 women and girls who
recently escaped the Islamic State, as well as an examination of the group’s
official communications, illuminate how the practice has been enshrined in the
group’s core tenets.
The trade in Yazidi women and girls has
created a persistent infrastructure, with a network of warehouses where the
victims are held, viewing rooms where they are inspected and marketed, and a
dedicated fleet of buses used to transport them.
A total of 5,270 Yazidis were
abducted last year, and at least 3,144 are still being held, according to
community leaders. To handle them, the Islamic State has developed a detailed
bureaucracy of sex slavery, including sales contracts notarized by the ISIS-run
Islamic courts. And the practice has become an established recruiting tool to
lure men from deeply conservative Muslim societies, where casual sex is taboo
and dating is forbidden.
A growing body of internal policy
memos and theological discussions has established guidelines for slavery,
including a lengthy how-to manual issued by the Islamic State Research and
Fatwa Department just last month. Repeatedly, the ISIS
leadership has emphasized a narrow and selective reading of the Quran and other
religious rulings to not only justify violence, but also to elevate and
celebrate each sexual assault as spiritually beneficial, even virtuous.
“Every time that he came to rape me,
he would pray,” said F, a 15-year-old girl who was captured on the shoulder of Mount Sinjar
one year ago and was sold to an Iraqi fighter in his 20s. Like some others
interviewed by The New York Times, she wanted to be identified only by her first
initial because of the shame associated with rape.
“He kept telling me this is ibadah,”
she said, using a term from Islamic scripture meaning worship.
“He said that raping me is his prayer to
God. I said to him, ‘What you’re doing to me is wrong, and it will not bring
you closer to God.’ And he said, ‘No, it’s allowed. It’s halal,’ ” said the
teenager, who escaped in April with the help of smugglers after being enslaved
for nearly nine months.
Calculated Conquest
The Islamic State’s formal
introduction of systematic sexual slavery dates to Aug. 3, 2014, when its
fighters invaded the villages on the southern flank of Mount
Sinjar, a craggy massif of dun-colored
rock in northern Iraq.
Its valleys and ravines are home to
the Yazidis, a tiny religious minority who represent less than 1.5 percent of Iraq’s
estimated population of 34 million.
The offensive on the mountain came
just two months after the fall of Mosul, the
second-largest city in Iraq.
At first, it appeared that the subsequent advance on the mountain was just
another attempt to extend the territory controlled by Islamic State fighters.
Almost immediately, there were signs that their aim this
time was different.
Survivors say that men and women
were separated within the first hour of their capture. Adolescent boys were
told to lift up their shirts, and if they had armpit hair, they were directed
to join their older brothers and fathers. In village after village, the men and
older boys were driven or marched to nearby fields, where they were forced to
lie down in the dirt and sprayed with automatic fire.
The women, girls and children, however, were hauled off in
open-bed trucks.
“The offensive on the mountain was
as much a sexual conquest as it was for territorial gain,” said Matthew Barber,
a University of Chicago expert on the Yazidi minority.
He was in Dohuk, near Mount
Sinjar, when the
onslaught began last summer and helped create a
foundation that provides psychological support for the escapees, who number
more than 2,000, according to community activists.
Fifteen-year-old F says her family
of nine was trying to escape, speeding up mountain switchbacks, when their
aging Opel overheated. She, her mother, and her sisters — 14, 7, and 4 years
old — were helplessly standing by their stalled car when a convoy of heavily
armed Islamic State fighters encircled them.
“Right away, the fighters separated
the men from the women,” she said. She, her mother and sisters were first taken
in trucks to the nearest town on Mount
Sinjar. “There, they
separated me from my mom. The young, unmarried girls were forced to get into
buses.”
The buses were white, with a painted
stripe next to the word “Hajj,” suggesting that the Islamic State had
commandeered Iraqi government buses used to transport pilgrims for the annual
pilgrimage to Mecca. So many Yazidi women and girls were loaded inside F’s bus
that they were forced to sit on each other’s laps, she said.
Once the bus headed out, they
noticed that the windows were blocked with curtains, an accouterment that
appeared to have been added because the fighters planned to transport large
numbers of women who were not covered in burqas or head scarves.
F’s account, including the physical
description of the bus, the placement of the curtains and the manner in which
the women were transported, is echoed by a dozen other female victims
interviewed for this article. They described a similar set of circumstances
even though they were kidnapped on different days and in locations miles apart.
F says she was driven to the Iraqi city
of Mosul some
six hours away, where they herded them into the Galaxy Wedding Hall. Other
groups of women and girls were taken to a palace from the Saddam Hussein era,
the Badoosh prison compound and the Directory of Youth building in Mosul, recent escapees
said. And in addition to Mosul, women were
herded into elementary schools and municipal buildings in the Iraqi towns of
Tal Afar, Solah, Ba’aj and Sinjar
City.
They would be
held in confinement, some for days, some for months. Then, inevitably, they
were loaded into the same fleet of buses again before being sent in smaller
groups to Syria or to other
locations inside Iraq,
where they
were bought and sold for sex.
“It was 100 percent preplanned,”
said Khider Domle, a Yazidi community activist who maintains a detailed
database of the victims. “I spoke by telephone to the first family who arrived
at the Directory of Youth in Mosul,
and the hall was already prepared for them. They had mattresses, plates and
utensils, food and water for hundreds of people.”
Detailed reports by Human Rights Watch and Amnesty International reach the same
conclusion about the organized nature of the sex trade.
In each location, survivors say
Islamic State fighters first conducted a census of their female captives.
Inside the voluminous Galaxy banquet
hall, F sat on the marble floor, squeezed between other adolescent girls. In
all she estimates there were over 1,300 Yazidi girls sitting, crouching,
splayed out and leaning against the walls of the ballroom, a number that is
confirmed by several other women held in the same location.
They each described how three
Islamic State fighters walked in, holding a register. They told the girls to
stand. Each one was instructed to state her first, middle and last name, her
age, her hometown, whether she was married, and if she had children.
For two months, F was held inside
the Galaxy hall. Then one day, they came and began removing young women. Those
who refused were dragged out by their hair, she said.
In the parking lot the same fleet of
Hajj buses was waiting to take them to their next destination, said F. Along
with 24 other girls and young women, the 15-year-old was driven to an army base
in Iraq.
It was there in the parking lot that she heard the word “sabaya” for
the first time.
“They laughed and jeered at us,
saying ‘You are our sabaya.’ I didn’t know what that word meant,” she said.
Later on, the local Islamic State leader explained it meant slave.
“He told us that Taus Malik” — one
of seven angels to whom the Yazidis pray — “is not God. He said that Taus Malik
is the devil and that because you worship the devil, you belong to us. We can
sell you and use you as we see fit.”
The Islamic State’s sex trade
appears to be based solely on enslaving women and girls from the Yazidi
minority. As yet, there has been no widespread campaign aimed at enslaving
women from other religious minorities, said Samer Muscati, the author of the
recent Human Rights Watch report. That assertion was echoed by community
leaders, government officials and other human rights workers.
Mr. Barber, of
the University of
Chicago, said that the
focus on Yazidis was likely because they are seen as polytheists, with an oral
tradition rather than a written scripture. In the Islamic State’s eyes that
puts them on the fringe of despised unbelievers, even more than Christians and
Jews, who are considered to have some limited protections under the Quran as
“People of the Book.”
In Kojo, one of the southernmost
villages on Mount
Sinjar and among the
farthest away from escape, residents decided to stay, believing they would be
treated as the Christians of Mosul had months earlier. On Aug. 15,
2014, the Islamic State ordered the residents to report to a school in the
center of town.
When she got there, 40-year-old Aishan
Ali Saleh found a community elder negotiating with the Islamic State, asking if
they could be allowed to hand over their money and gold in return for safe
passage.
The fighters initially agreed and
laid out a blanket, where Ms. Saleh placed her heart-shaped pendant and her
gold rings, while the men left crumpled bills.
Instead of letting them go, the fighters
began shoving the men outside, bound for death.
Sometime later, a fleet of cars
arrived and the women, girls and children were driven away.
The Market
Months later, the Islamic State
made clear in their online magazine that their campaign of enslaving Yazidi
women and girls had been extensively preplanned.
“Prior to the taking of Sinjar,
Shariah students in the Islamic State were tasked to research the Yazidis,”
said the English-language article, headlined “The Revival of Slavery Before the
Hour,” which appeared in the October issue of Dabiq.
The article made clear that for the
Yazidis, there was no chance to pay a tax known as jizya to be set free,
“unlike the Jews and Christians.”
“After capture, the Yazidi women and
children were then divided according to the Shariah amongst the fighters of the
Islamic State who participated in the Sinjar operations, after one fifth of the
slaves were transferred to the Islamic State’s authority to be divided” as sIn much
the same way as specific Bible passages were used centuries later to support
the slave trade in the United States, the Islamic State cites specific verses
or stories in the Quran or else in the Sunna, the traditions based on the
sayings and deeds of the Prophet Muhammad, to justify their human trafficking,
experts say.
Scholars of Islamic theology
disagree, however, on the proper interpretation of these verses, and on the
divisive question of whether Islam actually sanctions slavery.
Many argue that slavery figures in
Islamic scripture in much the same way that it figures in the Bible — as a
reflection of the period in antiquity in which the religion was born.
“In the milieu in which the Quran
arose, there was a widespread practice of men having sexual relationships with
unfree women,” said Kecia Ali, an associate professor of religion at Boston University
and the author of a book on slavery in early Islam. “It wasn’t a particular
religious institution. It was just how people did things.”
Cole Bunzel, a
scholar of Islamic theology at Princeton
University, disagrees,
pointing to the numerous references to the phrase “Those your right hand
possesses” in the Quran, which for centuries has been interpreted to mean
female slaves. He also points to the corpus of Islamic jurisprudence, which
continues into the modern era and which he says includes detailed rules for the
treatment of slaves.
“There is a great deal of scripture that
sanctions slavery,” said Mr. Bunzel, the author of a research paper published
by the Brookings Institution on the ideology of the Islamic State. “You can
argue that it is no longer relevant and has fallen into abeyance. ISIS would argue that these institutions need to be
revived, because that is what the Prophet and his companions did.”
The youngest,
prettiest women and girls were bought in the first weeks after their capture.
Others — especially older, married women — described how they were transported
from location to location, spending months in the equivalent of human holding
pens, until a prospective buyer bid on them.
Their captors appeared to have a system
in place, replete with its own methodology of inventorying the women, as well
as their own lexicon. Women and girls were referred to as “Sabaya,” followed by
their name. Some were bought by wholesalers, who photographed and gave them
numbers, to advertise them to potential buyers.
Osman Hassan Ali, a Yazidi
businessman who has successfully smuggled out numerous Yazidi women, said he
posed as a buyer in order to be sent the photographs. He shared a dozen images,
each one showing a Yazidi woman sitting in a bare room on a couch, facing the
camera with a blank, unsmiling expression. On the edge of the photograph is
written in Arabic, “Sabaya No. 1,” “Sabaya No. 2,” and so on.
Buildings where the women were
collected and held sometimes included a viewing room.
“When they put us in the building, they
said we had arrived at the ‘Sabaya Market,’” said one 19-year-old victim, whose
first initial is I. “I understood we were now
in a slave market.”
She estimated there were at least 500
other unmarried women and girls in the multistory building, with the youngest
among them being 11. When the buyers arrived, the girls were taken one by one
into a separate room.
“The emirs sat against the wall and
called us by name. We had to sit in a chair facing them. You had to look at them,
and before you went in, they took away our scarves and anything we could have
used to cover ourselves,” she said.
“When it was my turn, they made me
stand four times. They made me turn around.”
The captives were also forced to
answer intimate questions, including reporting the exact date of their last
menstrual cycle. They realized that the fighters were trying to determine
whether they were pregnant, in keeping with a Shariah rule stating that a man
cannot have intercourse with his slave if she is pregnant.
Property of ISIS
The use of sex slavery by the
Islamic State initially surprised even the group’s most ardent supporters, many
of whom sparred with journalists online after the first reports of systematic
rape.
The Islamic
State’s leadership has repeatedly sought to justify the practice to its
internal audience.
After the initial article in Dabiq
in October, the issue came up in the publication again this year, in an
editorial in May that expressed the writer’s hurt and dismay at the fact that
some of the group’s own sympathizers had questioned the institution of slavery.
“What really alarmed me was that some of
the Islamic State’s supporters started denying the matter as if the soldiers of
the Khilafah had committed a mistake or evil,” the author wrote. “I write this
while the letters drip of pride,’’ he said. “We have indeed raided and captured
the kafirahwomen and drove them like sheep by the edge of the sword.” Kafirah
refers to infidels.
In a pamphlet published online in December, the Research and
Fatwa Department of the Islamic State detailed best practices, including
explaining that slaves belong to the estate of the fighter who bought them and
therefore can be willed to another man and disposed of just like any other
property after his death.
Recent escapees describe an
intricate bureaucracy surrounding their captivity, with their status as a slave
registered in a contract. When their owner would sell them to another buyer, a
new contract would be drafted, like transferring a property deed. At the same
time, slaves can also be set free, and fighters are promised a heavenly reward
for doing so.
Though rare, this has created one
avenue of escape for victims.
A 25-year-old victim who escaped
last month, identified by her first initial, A, described how one day her
Libyan master handed her a laminated piece of paper. He explained that he had
finished his training as a suicide bomber and was planning to blow himself up,
and was thereLabeled a “Certificate of Emancipation,” the document was signed
by the judge of the western province of the Islamic State. The Yazidi woman
presented it at security checkpoints as she left Syria
to return to Iraq,
where she rejoined her family in July.
The Islamic State recently made it
clear that sex with Christian and Jewish women captured in battle is also
permissible, according to a new 34-page manual issued this summer by the terror
group’s Research and Fatwa Department.
Just about the only prohibition is
having sex with a pregnant slave, and the manual describes how an owner must
wait for a female captive to have her menstruating cycle, in order to “make
sure there is nothing in her womb,” before having intercourse with her. Of the
21 women and girls interviewed for this article, among the only ones who had not
been raped were the women who were already pregnant at the moment of their
capture, as well as those who were past menopause.
Beyond that, there appears to be no
bounds to what is sexually permissible. Child rape is explicitly condoned: “It
is permissible to have intercourse with the female slave who hasn’t reached
puberty, if she is fit for intercourse,” according to a translation by the
Middle East Media Research Institute of a pamphlet published on Twitter last
December.
One
34-year-old Yazidi woman, who was bought and repeatedly raped by a Saudi
fighter in the Syrian city of Shadadi, described how she fared better than the
second slave in the household — a 12-year-old girl who was raped for days on
end despite heavy bleeding.
“He destroyed her body. She was
badly infected. The fighter kept coming and asking me, ‘Why does she smell so
bad?’ And I said, she has an infection on the inside, you need to take care of
her,” the woman said.
Unmoved, he
ignored the girl’s agony, continuing the ritual of praying before and after
raping the child.
“I said to him, ‘She’s just a
little girl,’ ” the older woman recalled. “And he answered: ‘No. She’s not a
little girl. She’s a slave. And she knows exactly how to have sex.’ ’’
“And having sex with her pleases
God,” he said.
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