Why God is not listening to your prayer? You aren’t living as per the Word of God

 One day when Rev Fr Sharlo Ezhanikattu CST came out of the church after the morning services, he met with a middle-aged woman. She was crying. When asked, she said, "my son is the member of a rowdy gang who does anything -- even kill others -- for money. I prayed intensely, attended retreats and adoration services for his retrieval and redemption, but to no avail.”

  “Now I have decided to stop praying. I have decided not to go to church now. If God is not listening to my prayers, why should I pray?" the woman said.

  Rev Fr Sharlo was upset and a storm brewed in his mind. He prayed and prayed about this woman's problem. He thought over it again and again -- why God didn't listen to her prayer? One day he went to the chapel and prayed intensely for nearly 45 minutes. Then he got this message. "Listen! The Lord's arm is not too weak to save you, nor is his ear too deaf to hear you call," Isaiah 59:1.

 Looking at the Holy Eucharist, he continued his prayer. "Then why you didn't you listen to that mother's prayer?" Rev Fr Sharlo asked. He narrated this incident in his talk on “Shalom”, a Christian charismatic television channel from Kerala, India.

 He got another message. Isaiah 59:2: "But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear."

 It's very simple. God says our sins have kept Him away from us. Because of our iniquities and sinful life, I'm not listening to your prayer. This is what God says.

  “For many years, we Christians attend Holy Masses, adoration services and pray rosary every day. You probably started your family life 15 or 20 or 25 years ago, but still you were unable to save your family,” Rev Fr Sharlo said. What does it mean? You were unable to get the blessings from God. “There's only one reason. It's very important. You are not living as per the Word of God. You are not leading a life as desired by God. That's why blessings, grace and holiness are missing in your family life,” Rev Fr Sharlo said.

  Do you know the basic problem with Christians these days? “They lead a life as they like or prefer it. They do whatever they like in life, and are least bothered whether God likes it or not. After leading such a life, they pray religiously -- day in and out. Daily. But they don't get the blessings and grace from the Lord as they don’t live according to the Word of God,” he said.

  Most of us start praying intensely only when we face a crisis in our life. But there’s no solution and God is not listening to the prayer. Why?

  Many people are now rushing to charismatic retreat centres for healing and blessings. They ask – ‘I attended several prayer meetings, adoration services, rosaries and Holy Mass, but why I'm not getting any blessing or healing in my life? Why is God not giving any grace in our life?’ 

  “Please understand, it's not because of lack of prayers that Christians are not being saved. Christians are not saved because they are not leading a life as per the Word of God. They are not coming out of their sinful life and praying to God,” Rev Fr Sharlo said..
 "For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil," says I Peter 3:12.

 Psalms 91:14 says, ""Because he loves me," says the Lord, "I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name."

 Look at Saul in the Old Testament. He didn't have anything. He knew only to pray. When he started living as per God's wishes, he got blessings from the Lord.

 How can you love Lord? How can you come closer to Him. The only way is to come out of the sinful life and break all the friendship with Satan. "For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself?" says Luke 9:25.

 It's very clear. Only people who forsake the "pleasures" offered by the world and reject the machinations of Satan can enjoy the grace, blessings and happiness offered by God. We need to change the practice of leading our own worldly life and then go and pray incessantly. “If you lead a life as per the Word of God and then make an offering to the Lord, then He will listen to you. Who will enter the Kingdom of God? Please read Psalms 15,” he said.
Lord, who may dwell in your sacred tent?
   Who may live on your holy mountain?

 The one whose walk is blameless,
    who does what is righteous,
    who speaks the truth from their heart;
 whose tongue utters no slander,
    who does no wrong to a neighbor,
    and casts no slur on others;
 who despises a vile person
    but honors those who fear the Lord;
who keeps an oath even when it hurts,
    and does not change their mind;
 who lends money to the poor without interest;
    who does not accept a bribe against the innocent.
Whoever does these things
    will never be shaken.

 For, every Christian should understand one thing. We should not be just leading a prayer life. “We should bring our life also into it. If you lead a life of your own without bothering to follow God's ways, they there won’t be any grace or blessing in your life,” Rev Fr Sharlo said.

 What we need is both prayer and a life as per the Word of God.